- Learn about the illness and how it affects the person. This can help you understand what the person needs and what challenges and limitations he or she may be experiencing. Be sensitive to special needs in terms of hygiene, physical arrangements, or other assistance.
- Consider emotional, physical, and spiritual needs. Take time to show genuine interest. Focus on the person as a whole, not just his or her illness.
- Be aware that others who care for the person may also be affected as they react to seeing their loved one struggle.
- Help the person maintain dignity. Support realistic self-care as much as possible. Be positive and focus on what he or she can do rather than dwelling on limitations.
- Work together with priesthood and auxiliary leaders and home and visiting teachers as well as the person and his or her family to make reasonable accommodations. For example, physical limitations may require help in getting to and from meetings. To the extent feasible, help the person with a disability and the family keep the influence of the Spirit in their lives.
- Find opportunities for the person to serve and contribute within the ward family according to his or her abilities.
- Be a good listener as the person tries to accept, understand, and cope with the illness. Never imply it is because a person is “special” or a “sinner.” Prayer and faith in Christ are essential.
- If the person is hospitalized or homebound, regular visits are often appreciated.
To learn more: Chronic Illness
